### Description
1. use the pool with VS2022
2. upgrade System.Memory to 4.5.5
### Motivation and Context
Solve the build error while using VS2022:
`[Failure] Msbuild failed when processing the file
'D:\a\_work\1\s\csharp\src\Microsoft.ML.OnnxRuntime\Microsoft.ML.OnnxRuntime.csproj'
with message: Method not found: 'System.ReadOnlySpan`1<Char>
Microsoft.IO.Path.GetFileName(System.ReadOnlySpan`1<Char>)'`
Ref:
https://stackoverflow.com/questions/73399777/azure-build-failing-due-to-method-not-found-system-readonlyspan1char-micros
### Description
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Various fixes to the CSharp setup
- fix warnings
- fix invalid tests
- update test sdk nuget package
- enables testing on linux
- fixes issue with some unit tests not running in CI
- run unit tests in linux pipeline using dotnet
### Motivation and Context
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- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->
Unit tests weren't breaking in CIs for both Windows and Linux builds and
should have been.
### Description
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Add infrastructure so it's easy for a user to add the ORT extensions
nuget package and register the custom ops for C# apps.
### Motivation and Context
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- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->
Need to be able to use extensions on mobile platforms with Xamarin/MAUI
Add Xamarin support to the ORT nuget packages.
- Update C# code to support Xamarin builds for iOS and Android
- refactor some things to split out common code
- include iOS and Android ORT native shared library in native nuget package
