### Description <!-- Describe your changes. --> * Introducing CI option to enable TRT-OSS parser, during ep perf testing:  By default, open-sourced onnx-tensorrt parser listed under [cmake/deps.txt](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/blob/main/cmake/deps.txt#L39-L40) will be used if enabling this option. ### To verify this option and check the difference during ORT image build: If this option is enabled: <img width="649" alt="image" src="https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/assets/109183385/3b778583-451e-4617-ba8c-c064442e60fd"> If this option is not enabled (by default): <img width="683" alt="image" src="https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/assets/109183385/cd8383ba-eff4-4536-94ab-a1424bb858ab"> * update default usage of cmake/trt version to the latest ### Motivation and Context Make it easier to test oss parser and find potential gap between tensorrt builtin/oss parser. Schedule runs with oss parser will be set after this PR gets merged
