Update C/C++ dependencies: abseil, date, nsync, googletest, wil, mp11, cpuinfo and safeint (#15470)
### Description
Update C/C++ dependencies abseil, date, nsync, googletest, wil, mp11,
cpuinfo and safeint to newer versions per request of @
mayeut. He created the following PRs to update the deps:
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/15432
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/15434
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/15435
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/15436
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/15437
However, our build system needs to fetch the dependencies from an
internal mirror that only Microsoft employees have write access to. So I
closed his PRs and created this one.
This PR also updates abseil to a newer version. This is to prepare for
upgrading re2.
