### Description
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Conditionally route to custom AllReduce kernel when buffer size and gpu
numbers meet certain requirements. Otherwise, keep using NCCL's
AllReduce.
### Motivation and Context
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Co-authored-by: Ye Wang <wangye@microsoft.com@h100vm-ort.kxelwkzfzxguje5bxvwxxs135a.gvxx.internal.cloudapp.net>
Co-authored-by: Your Name <you@example.com>
