### Description
This change is to update the Gradle version within java project to 8.7,
it also upgrades the JAVA to 17. Gradle version from react-native was
also updated to 7.5 to make it compatible with changes from the Java
directory. However, the target java version remains the same. Java
version from these will be upgraded in a separated PR.
This is spited from #22206
### Motivation and Context
This is the first step to upgrade the react native version.
- Update Gradle version used in most places from 6.8.3 to 8.0.1. Update Android Gradle Plugin version where applicable.
Not updated in this change: React Native Android projects (under `js/react_native/`). That can be done later along with updating the React Native projects.
- Add Gradle wrapper in `java/` to make it easier to consistently use a specific Gradle version.
