Add "-allow-unsupported-compiler" flags to Windows CUDA flags (#21004)

### Description
Add "-allow-unsupported-compiler" flags to Windows CUDA flags. This
change only impacts our pipelines. By default it would not reach this
code path.

### Motivation and Context
nvcc refuses working with the latest VS toolset unless this flag is set.

If without this change, our CI build will fail with the compiler is the
latest VS 2022 17.10. Here is the log:
https://dev.azure.com/onnxruntime/onnxruntime/_build/results?buildId=1405549&view=logs&j=6df8fe70-7b8f-505a-8ef0-8bf93da2bac7&t=c7e55e04-f02b-57dc-d19a-29b7d3528c44&l=715

The error message is:
`D:\a\_work\_temp\v11.8\include\crt/host_config.h(153): fatal error
C1189: #error: -- unsupported Microsoft Visual Studio version! Only the
versions between 2017 and 2022 (inclusive) are supported! The nvcc flag
'-allow-unsupported-compiler' can be used to override this version
check; however, using an unsupported host compiler may cause compilation
failure or incorrect run time execution. Use at your own risk.
[D:\a\_work\1\b\RelWithDebInfo\CMakeFiles\CMakeScratch\TryCompile-g5rudf\cmTC_7b8ff.vcxproj]`

tools/ci_build/build.py

@@ -1589,6 +1589,7 @@ def generate_build_tree(
                             cuda_compile_flags_str = cuda_compile_flags_str + " " + compile_flag
                     if len(cuda_compile_flags_str) != 0:
                         cudaflags.append('-Xcompiler="%s"' % cuda_compile_flags_str)
+                    cudaflags.append("-allow-unsupported-compiler")
             elif is_linux() or is_macOS():
                 if is_linux():
                     ldflags = ["-Wl,-Bsymbolic-functions", "-Wl,-z,relro", "-Wl,-z,now", "-Wl,-z,noexecstack"]