Update mimalloc dependancy to the latest release (2.1.1) for Windows build. (#15382)

### Description
Update mimalloc dependency.

### Motivation and Context
The latest release contains important fixes including memory leaks and
used by customers.

cgmanifests/generated/cgmanifest.json

@@ -272,7 +272,7 @@
       "component": {
         "type": "git",
         "git": {
-          "commitHash": "f412df7a2b64421e1f1d61fde6055a6ea288e8f5",
+          "commitHash": "3e313478d91c04ac5821743688ce55fc27432c4f",
           "repositoryUrl": "https://github.com/microsoft/mimalloc.git"
         },
         "comments": "mimalloc"

cmake/deps.txt

@@ -21,7 +21,7 @@ googlexnnpack;https://github.com/google/XNNPACK/archive/003c580e696a774afdc98499
 json;https://github.com/nlohmann/json/archive/refs/tags/v3.10.5.zip;f257f8dc27c5b8c085dc887b40cddd18ae1f725c
 microsoft_gsl;https://github.com/microsoft/GSL/archive/refs/tags/v4.0.0.zip;cf368104cd22a87b4dd0c80228919bb2df3e2a14
 microsoft_wil;https://github.com/microsoft/wil/archive/5f4caba4e7a9017816e47becdd918fcc872039ba.zip;fd119887d0d17c37adf1fc227b054befa28158ad
-mimalloc;https://github.com/microsoft/mimalloc/archive/refs/tags/v2.0.3.zip;e4f37b93b2da78a5816c2495603a4188d316214b
+mimalloc;https://github.com/microsoft/mimalloc/archive/refs/tags/v2.1.1.zip;d5ee7d34223d0567892db5179849939c8769dc41
 mp11;https://github.com/boostorg/mp11/archive/refs/tags/boost-1.79.0.zip;c8f04e378535ededbe5af52c8f969d2dedbe73d5
 onnx;https://github.com/onnx/onnx/archive/refs/tags/v1.13.1.zip;7a2517d3e7442109d540de2c86f29cd76d34cf28
 #use the commit where it's several commits after 8.5-GA branch (https://github.com/onnx/onnx-tensorrt/commit/369d6676423c2a6dbf4a5665c4b5010240d99d3c)

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/download-deps.yml

@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ steps:
       packageType: upack
       feed: '/7424c8e4-5c62-490e-95c4-79446f31017c'
       definition: '517c4f6f-5437-4392-a70d-4f15ec5be2f0'
-      version: 1.0.37
+      version: 1.0.41
       downloadPath: $(Build.BinariesDirectory)/deps
 
 # The private ADO project
@@ -22,7 +22,7 @@ steps:
       packageType: upack
       feed: '/4c7631f5-24c0-4307-8822-1aa8f180c325'
       definition: 'fd9dd5ad-b73e-4678-890e-edcf680dbc1a'
-      version: 1.0.37
+      version: 1.0.41
       downloadPath: $(Build.BinariesDirectory)/deps
 
 # You can add more ADO accounts at here.