keep symlinks in maven package (#16376)

### Description
1. Keep symlink in the package.
2. keep the artifact package format

### Motivation and Context
<!-- - Why is this change required? What problem does it solve?
- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/mac-cpu-packaging-pipeline.yml

@@ -79,7 +79,7 @@ stages:
           StepName: 'Download Pipeline onnxruntime-osx-x86_64'
           ArtifactName: 'onnxruntime-osx-x86_64'
           TargetPath: '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)'
-          SpecificArtifact: ${{ parameters.specificArtifact }}
+          SpecificArtifact: ${{ parameters.SpecificArtifact }}
           BuildId: ${{ parameters.BuildId }}
 
       - ${{ if eq(parameters.BuildForAllArchs, true) }}:
@@ -88,26 +88,45 @@ stages:
             StepName: 'Download Pipeline onnxruntime-osx-arm64'
             ArtifactName: 'onnxruntime-osx-arm64'
             TargetPath: '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)'
-            SpecificArtifact: ${{ parameters.specificArtifact }}
+            SpecificArtifact: ${{ parameters.SpecificArtifact }}
             BuildId: ${{ parameters.BuildId }}
         - template: flex-downloadPipelineArtifact.yml
           parameters:
             StepName: 'Download Pipeline onnxruntime-osx-universal2'
             ArtifactName: 'onnxruntime-osx-universal2'
             TargetPath: '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)'
-            SpecificArtifact: ${{ parameters.specificArtifact }}
+            SpecificArtifact: ${{ parameters.SpecificArtifact }}
             BuildId: ${{ parameters.BuildId }}
 
       - ${{ if eq(parameters.DoESRP, true)}}:
+        - script: |
+            pushd '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)'
+            find . '*.tgz' -exec tar -zxvf {} \;
+            rm -f *.tgz;
+            find . -type d -name 'onnxruntime-osx-*' -exec zip -FSr --symlinks {}.zip {} \;
+            find . -type d -name 'onnxruntime-osx-*' -exec rm -rf {} \;
+            ls -l
+            popd
+          displayName: tgz to zip
         - template: mac-esrp-dylib.yml
           parameters:
             FolderPath: '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)'
             DisplayName: 'ESRP - Sign Mac'
             DoEsrp: true
             Pattern: '*.zip'
+        - script: |
+            pushd '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)'
+            find . '*.zip' -exec unzip {} \;
+            rm -f *.zip;
+            find . -type d -name 'onnxruntime-osx-*' -exec tar -czf {}.tgz {} \;
+            find . -type d -name 'onnxruntime-osx-*' -exec rm -rf {} \;
+            ls -l
+            popd
+          displayName: zip to tgz
         - bash: |
             set -ex
-            find $(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory) -name "*.zip" -exec unzip {} -d $(Agent.TempDirectory)/macpackage \;
+            mkdir -p $(Agent.TempDirectory)/macpackage
+            find $(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory) -name "*.tgz" -exec tar -zxvf {} -C $(Agent.TempDirectory)/macpackage \;
             find $(Agent.TempDirectory)/macpackage -name "*.dylib" -exec codesign -dvvv {} \;
             find $(Agent.TempDirectory)/macpackage -name "*.dylib" -exec ls -l {} \;
             rm -rf $(Agent.TempDirectory)/macpackage

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/mac-cpu-packaging-steps.yml

@@ -68,8 +68,9 @@ steps:
   inputs:
     rootFolderOrFile: '$(Build.BinariesDirectory)/onnxruntime-osx-${{ parameters.MacosArch }}-$(OnnxRuntimeVersion)'
     includeRootFolder: true
-    archiveType: 'zip' # Options: zip, 7z, tar, wim
-    archiveFile: '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)/onnxruntime-osx-${{ parameters.MacosArch }}-$(OnnxRuntimeVersion).zip'
+    archiveType: 'tar' # Options: zip, 7z, tar, wim
+    tarCompression: 'gz'
+    archiveFile: '$(Build.ArtifactStagingDirectory)/onnxruntime-osx-${{ parameters.MacosArch }}-$(OnnxRuntimeVersion).tgz'
     replaceExistingArchive: true
 
 - script: |