make WITHCACHE as an option in MacOS workflow (#14188)

### Description
1. Set the WithCache default value as false in Mac OS CI workflow too.
2. Add date of today in cache key to avoid cache size keep increasing
too.

WithCache, the pipeline duration reduced from 70 more minutes to 10 more
minutes

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/mac-ci-pipeline.yml

@@ -3,4 +3,5 @@ jobs:
   parameters:
     AllowReleasedOpsetOnly: 0
     BuildForAllArchs: false
-    AdditionalBuildFlags: --build_objc --enable_language_interop_ops --build_wheel
+    AdditionalBuildFlags: --build_objc --enable_language_interop_ops --build_wheel
+    WithCache: true

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/mac-ci.yml

@@ -17,6 +17,11 @@ parameters:
   displayName: Build for all CPU ARCHs
   type: boolean
 
+- name: WithCache
+  displayName: Build with Cache
+  type: boolean
+  default: false
+
 jobs:
 - job: MacOS_C_API_Packaging_CPU_x64
   workspace:
@@ -25,6 +30,7 @@ jobs:
     MACOSX_DEPLOYMENT_TARGET: '10.14'
     ALLOW_RELEASED_ONNX_OPSET_ONLY: ${{ parameters.AllowReleasedOpsetOnly }}
     CCACHE_DIR: $(Pipeline.Workspace)/ccache
+    TODAY: $[format('{0:dd}{0:MM}{0:yyyy}', pipeline.startTime)]
   pool:
     vmImage: 'macOS-11'
   timeoutInMinutes:  300
@@ -48,14 +54,16 @@ jobs:
         brew install ccache
         echo "##vso[task.prependpath]/usr/local/opt/ccache/libexec"
       displayName: Install ccache and update PATH to use linked versions of gcc, cc, etc
+      condition: eq(${{ parameters.WITHCACHE }}, true)
 
     - task: Cache@2
       inputs:
-        key: 'ccache | "$(Agent.OS)" | protocol | "$(Build.SourceVersion)" '
+        key:  ' "$(TODAY)" | ccache | protocol | "$(Build.SourceVersion)" '
         path: $(CCACHE_DIR)
         restoreKeys: |
-          ccache | "$(Agent.OS)" | protocol
+          "$(TODAY)" | ccache | protocol
       displayName: ccache protocol
+      condition: eq(${{ parameters.WITHCACHE }}, true)
 
     - script: |
         set -e -x
@@ -73,14 +81,16 @@ jobs:
         ccache -s
         ccache -z
       displayName: Show Cache stats and Clear protolbuf stats.
+      condition: eq(${{ parameters.WITHCACHE }}, true)
 
     - task: Cache@2
       inputs:
-        key: 'ccache | "$(Agent.OS)" | onnxruntime | "$(Build.SourceVersion)" '
+        key: ' "$(TODAY)" | ccache  | onnxruntime | "$(Build.SourceVersion)" '
         path: $(CCACHE_DIR)
         restoreKeys: |
-          ccache | "$(Agent.OS)" | onnxruntime
+          "$(TODAY)" | ccache | onnxruntime
       displayName: ccache MacOS Build
+      condition: eq(${{ parameters.WITHCACHE }}, true)
 
     - ${{ if eq(parameters.BuildForAllArchs, true) }}:
       - template: mac-packaging.yml
@@ -109,6 +119,7 @@ jobs:
         ccache -s
         ccache -z
       displayName: Show Cache stats
+      condition: eq(${{ parameters.WITHCACHE }}, true)
 
     - task: PublishPipelineArtifact@1
       inputs: