Fix ROCM's nightly build (#17518)

### Description
PR 15470 updated some C/C++ dependencies. The change caused ROCM EP's
nightly build to fail. see issue
https://github.com/ROCm-Developer-Tools/HIP/issues/2082 for a
background. So, the root cause is HIP compiler has a special requirement
that HIP's include dirs must be used before the operating system's
include folder: /usr/include. HIP adds "-isystem" in front of
"/usr/include". gcc or clang will search the folders added with "-I"
first, then the "-isystem" folder. It works fine as long as we do not
add "-I/usr/include" to the compile commands for *.cu files. It would be wrong if
we already have installed an open source library to /usr and want to use the
prebuilt library from there instead of the current build dir. 


### Motivation and Context

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/rocm.yml

@@ -91,7 +91,7 @@ jobs:
               --enable_training \
               --cmake_extra_defines \
                 CMAKE_HIP_COMPILER=/opt/rocm/llvm/bin/clang++ \
-                onnxruntime_BUILD_UNIT_TESTS=OFF \
+                onnxruntime_BUILD_UNIT_TESTS=OFF FETCHCONTENT_TRY_FIND_PACKAGE_MODE=NEVER \
               ${{ variables['EnableProfiling'] }}
       workingDirectory: $(Build.SourcesDirectory)
     displayName: 'Build onnxruntime (in container)'

tools/ci_build/github/linux/build_rocm_c_api_package.sh

@@ -40,7 +40,7 @@ docker run --rm \
     --use_rocm --rocm_version=$ROCM_VERSION --rocm_home $ROCM_HOME --nccl_home $ROCM_HOME \
     --build_shared_lib \
     --skip_submodule_sync \
-    --skip_tests \
+    --skip_tests --cmake_extra_defines FETCHCONTENT_TRY_FIND_PACKAGE_MODE=NEVER
 
 
 EXIT_CODE=$?