More fixes on random connection excepiton in Mac Build. (#20328)

### Description
supplement of #20322 



### Motivation and Context
Fixes random connection exceptions in 
Mac build in Python Packaging Pipeline

https://dev.azure.com/aiinfra/Lotus/_build/results?buildId=443617&view=logs&j=5849a411-e258-5ce5-39bd-7b65d44961a0&t=ccb871c8-76d9-5e80-55b0-4279efd5567f
and IOS full xcframework

https://dev.azure.com/aiinfra/Lotus/_build/results?buildId=443458&view=logs&j=370fd1a2-3dec-5916-4d2c-8aae58c72d28&t=686352ba-ee61-5ad4-8739-e8abd07372a4&s=e9aa87c8-a9ad-51f7-3b12-045ecc319776

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/c-api-cpu.yml

@@ -109,6 +109,7 @@ stages:
     - template: use-xcode-version.yml
       parameters:
         xcodeVersion: 14.2
+
     - script: |
         /bin/bash $(Build.SourcesDirectory)/tools/ci_build/github/apple/build_host_protoc.sh \
           $(Build.SourcesDirectory) \
@@ -116,6 +117,15 @@ stages:
           $(Build.BinariesDirectory)/protobuf_install
       displayName: Build Host Protoc
 
+    - template: download-deps.yml
+
+    - task: PythonScript@0
+      displayName: 'Update deps.txt'
+      inputs:
+        scriptPath: $(Build.SourcesDirectory)/tools/ci_build/replace_urls_in_deps.py
+        arguments: --new_dir $(Build.BinariesDirectory)/deps
+        workingDirectory: $(Build.BinariesDirectory)
+
     - script: |
         set -e -x
         python3 tools/ci_build/github/apple/build_apple_framework.py \

tools/ci_build/github/azure-pipelines/templates/py-packaging-stage.yml

@@ -57,10 +57,10 @@ parameters:
    - MinSizeRel
 
 stages:
-- stage: Python_Packaging_Windows_CPU
-  dependsOn: []
-  jobs:
-  - ${{ if eq(parameters.enable_windows_cpu, true) }}:
+- ${{ if eq(parameters.enable_windows_cpu, true) }}:
+  - stage: Python_Packaging_Windows_CPU
+    dependsOn: []
+    jobs:
     - job: Windows_py_Wheels
       pool: 'onnxruntime-Win-CPU-2022'
       strategy:
@@ -393,6 +393,15 @@ stages:
         parameters:
           xcodeVersion: 14.2
 
+      - template: download-deps.yml
+
+      - task: PythonScript@0
+        displayName: 'Update deps.txt'
+        inputs:
+          scriptPath: $(Build.SourcesDirectory)/tools/ci_build/replace_urls_in_deps.py
+          arguments: --new_dir $(Build.BinariesDirectory)/deps
+          workingDirectory: $(Build.BinariesDirectory)
+
       - script: |
           set -e -x
           export _PYTHON_HOST_PLATFORM=macosx-${{variables.MACOSX_DEPLOYMENT_TARGET}}-universal2